Monday 30 November 2015

Let's lead the change...

Recently, we seen a big outrage on a comment from Indian Bollywood actor Amir Khan, who expressed the amount of intolerance uprising in the country and as usual, we all flooded social networking sites with our anger on the individual. Have we completely analysed his views? India is giving right of speech and freedom of expression to each citizen. So being a citizen, if he has expressed his views on the present scenario of the country, who gave us right to jump into opposition soon without any clarity of our own minds? It is not being on this side or that, but it is more about being more sensible and mature. May be what he said has hurt many of our feelings as Indians, and we also do have right to retaliate by expressing our hatred, but at the same time, he also just did the same. It doesn’t mean one is to be labelled ‘anti-national’ immediately. We have actually proved him right by bombarding with abuse that yes, we are intolerant! Another incident happened in the same time, when we mocked Indian National Congress Vice President Rahul Gandhi for his speech in Mt. Carmel college in Bengaluru. Later on a student of the same college who attended the session posted the detailed note which got widely circulated on social media platforms, showcases the other side of the story. Another example, we also didn’t leave our honourable Prime Minister of India, Narendra Modi in the parliament during discussion on the constitution of India. Just a small clip got viral showcasing the prime minister is taking nap in the running session. Later on, detailed clip was released to clarify that the prime minister was not taking nap, but was listening the discussion.

These are just three of the latest events, however there are many more to be counted and list will be never ending. It has become our tendency these days, to just react for the sake of opposing anything and everything – whether it is pro-system or anti-system. We actually have lost our senses to analyze ourselves before putting forward us on the front line. It is exactly like going on the front line of war without any preparation and than make a ‘U-turn’ and raise white flag as we realized that we were wrong! We, ourselves are making big jokes on so called our patriotism. We actually need to realize the real values of Indian ethics and culture before commenting and reacting on anything. We become judges and give away verdict without any investigations, just purely based on what we seen… not necessarily to be the truth, but who cares!

Furthermore, up to certain level, we are only responsible for our representatives to govern us. These days, it is pretty shameful the languages been used during the elections and in the constitutional houses such as assembly and parliament. Is this how we want to present our country to the rest of the world? Our complains are not wrong, but at the same time, why don’t we forget that we are the ones who have sent them there. From leaders to citizens, we take not a second thought while accusing the countrymen with abusive language.

Secondly, we have adopted mind-sets that our fellow brothers migrated to other countries are now our enemy. Let’s give a thought that why don’t we create same environment at home only, so there will not be any more brain drain… but perhaps for this, we need to overcome with issues related to equality, fair compensation, appreciation and recognition, cleanliness… and many more things. Is it difficult to achieve? We can surely do it, if we will by heart; and believe me, we can surely do as if we can do the same while going to other country, we can do the same at home too. On the other hand, even the NRIs should also look back to India by removing the glasses which they worn while going out. No country can be the same ever. They should also be open to accept the change in their home country rather just been sitting in their luxurious villa in a developed country, watching television and abuse the country and countrymen. Do they do for the country where they are residing? No… than how can they do the same for their own motherland? Yes, changes are needed from both the sides.

Let’s accept the fact that we are the one who are truly responsible for corruption, intolerance, racism, and everything which bothers us. Yes, we are the creators. We do shout about injustice to Indians by the rest of the world, but at the same time, we in India are also divided into different casts and races and religions. We have adopted the mindsets that all glitter is gold and we rush blindly for the shine, irrespective whether it is natural or artificial. Sad, but true! We talk a lot about dirty politics and corruptions on various social platforms but when we are stopped by a traffic police while going to our offices, what we do is to offer him ‘off record fine’ or ‘kharcha paani’ just because we cannot afford being late. We take no time in coming out for rally against corruption. To raise our voice against the dirt is a good thing but at the same time, almost 90% of them are riding two wheelers having perhaps three people on a bike or that’s for sure that driving without helmet.

We talk about dirt in the system, but we only made the system. If we will not clean our house, then who is going to come and clean – no one. Let it be politicians or the officials, agreed, some of them are not as per our expectations, but it does not give us right to be the judge and declare them guilty. Let the law takes it own course. At least some day, justice will be done. Also, at the same time, we cannot just sit back and wait for it. Indeed, we need to raise ourselves for cleaning drive too, but with the ethics and morale.

Let’s not forget that what we are shouting on social platforms, is just been limited to those platforms only these days. Our ancient education system was so powerful that people from all over the world used to come down to India for obtaining quality education. Many countries used to come to India for business. India was once being called as golden sparrow. Now what? Now we have reason to blame it on others that we were ruled by others and they spoiled the country. Is it really possible, if our roots were so strong then only a few years of ruling shook the entire country? Come on, let’s be realistic that we only choose to spoil it more and blame on others; because its almost around 70 years since we got independence. What we did? Again, we have our leaders are there, whom we only selected and elected, to be blamed for… and the saga continues!

Very first thing is that we need to accept the reality and be open to correct ourselves. There is no such problem which comes without solution. Once we will leave all the hypocrisy, we will be able to make our society a healthy and safe society with equal rights and equal opportunities to everyone. Let us think about some of the positive views for the solutions of present problems and take the lead. Rules are not meant to be broken, but are to be followed with matured sense. By paying fine for broken rules won’t help, let us take the initiative to correct our own mistakes. Let us educate ourselves and make our society aware about our own ethics, value and morale to be unified – not to fight against anything or anyone, but to corrected our own deeds before raising fingers to others. We must not forget that we are humans, not the crabs! If we are good, our surrounding will be good and so as the society. We need to be patient rather jumping to any opinion against anyone. Remember, we are human beings, not the fault research centres. Whatever Amir Khan has said, it leads to a simple question, why a citizen feels unsafe? May be his view is biased and negative, but there cannot be smoke without fire and we cannot afford to be the fuel for the fire. Let’s be the solution, rather than problem. We are the one who has selected and elected our leaders to govern us and so let us show some little respect. If we are changed with positive attitude, automatically our leaders will be positive as they are amongst us only. In a nutshell, stop criticising and start contributing with positivity. Let us be matured citizen first so we can raise the head of our motherland high enough with glory and dignity on global platform. I am sure we can do it and we will do it.


With the hope for a beautiful tomorrow of motherland…